Skim a little leftover money to save for future use. In our pre-baby budget, we each had a small category of fun money and we had a 'fun' category which was usually used for eating out. When we would have a couple dollars left in a category, we cashed out and stuck it in an envelope. When my expense check covered more than my mileage, we would skim a little off the top and put it in that same envelope. Now we have a little cash stash to use for whatever we want post baby.
Search for deals in weird places. My niece and nephew were selling Chickfila calendars last year, so we bought 2 for a total year investment of $16. Now each month, we each get a free treat at Chickfila. We treat it as a mini date out (or a real date out on the months where you get a whole meal- the best!), and had a lot of fun with it in January. The freebie was a bowl of soup, so we both got a drink and a cone with it. This month is a large fry, which we decided we'll stop and get on a day full of errands, to have a quiet few minutes to just be together and enjoy a little snack. In the past, I probably wouldn't have considered that a date, but now it's exciting to see each month what we're getting that is already 'paid for'!
Build friendships with other parents for future trading of babysitting (and just because it's nice to have friends, of course!). I've had a couple people offer us this for the future. When our baby is old enough/I'm comfortable enough with it, we will totally trade babysitting so we can get out just the two of us. I would imagine we'll do things like go out for a cheap meal, a second run movie, or even just go walk in a park together!
Build friendships with other parents for future trading of babysitting (and just because it's nice to have friends, of course!). I've had a couple people offer us this for the future. When our baby is old enough/I'm comfortable enough with it, we will totally trade babysitting so we can get out just the two of us. I would imagine we'll do things like go out for a cheap meal, a second run movie, or even just go walk in a park together!
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The way we celebrate date nights (mostly) is to put the kids to bed and order takeout, pick up a movie and bottle of wine, and relax at home. That way we don't have to pay a babysitter or tip at the restaurant.
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